Congratulations! You’ve officially tied the knot and you are now bound together in marriage. Now you have a life partner, a soulmate who will share everything in life with you.
As you move forward through this journey, you will face some hardships, you will have arguments and sometimes frustrations. Don’t panic; this is a very natural.
Many couples experience similar issues that arise during the first year of marriage, and those who are able to work through this challenging phase are ultimately successful in strengthening their relationships for the long term.
Here are some of the most frequently asked questions on marital issues received by our ‘Ask the Counselor‘ service.
The answers here — presented by our professional counselors – aim to provide suggestions and advice on how to work things out, improve marriage and live a happy married life in sha’ Allah.
A Newly Married Couple: We’re Struggling with Intimacy
I struggle with physical intimacy although we did consummate our marriage. I hate it so much. One night, I’m perfectly fine the next time I can’t stand him.
A New Marriage Takes Adjustment
How can I sleep with a person when I don’t even want to sit with him? I cannot look at him as my husband. I told my mom about this and she said I have to pretend at first, then I will get used to it.
In-Laws Always Criticize Me
I married my husband a couple of months ago, and I am now pregnant. Since day one, my mother-in-law has been trying to control me according to her wishes.
Adjusting To Marriage: Tips For Newly Married Couples
Soon after the marriage, we started arguing a lot. Our views don’t match and our families are totally the opposite regarding many things.
Newly Married Life Feels Miserable
My impression was that he was good, but sometimes he seems selfish and cold; like on our honeymoon. He was constantly on his phone/laptop.
My Newly Wife’s Past Bothers Me
shall I continue my marriage with a girl who was involved with a guy for 5 years? She should have told me the truth before getting married!
After a Horrible First Night, Husband Hasn’t Had Sex with Me
We attempted intercourse. It was horribly painful for me and out of pain, I asked him to stop. He did and said we’d try again sometime else. It’s been 11 months since this happened and my husband has not touched me again.
Over Sensitive Wife, How to Deal with Her?
I foolishly joked that I might not be enough for her and she may need someone else. It was an inappropriate joke but, in my opinion, she has overreacted by crying and saying I have hurt her.
Did I Make a Mistake Marrying Someone From a Different State?
I have lived all my life in California, therefore I am so used to this peaceful environment. However, when I got married, I had to move to NY with my Husband. The problem is that I am so attached to CA where I have my life and friends and family, whereas in NY I have only my husband.
How to Solve Intimacy Problems in Marriage
Sex is the cherry on top for me and I feel like I am now stuck. I am not getting any sort of pleasure from my marriage. I do not know what to do.
Using Interrupted Intercourse to Delay Pregnancy
Is it OK to use the interrupted method during intercourse to delay pregnancy?
Husband is Annoyed with Having Sex
We sleep in different rooms due to mattress issues. If I go to his room, he tells me that I’m disturbing his sleep. If I want sex, I have to initiate it, and he seems to be annoyed by it.
My Wife Doesn’t Have Any Desire for Sex
I got married half a year ago. She is a very good and humble person. But she doesn’t have a sexual desire at all. So, I still haven’t had any sexual intercourse with her.
I Want a Baby But My Husband Postpones It
I recently married and I am so frustrated and deeply longing for a baby. When I discussed this with my husband, he says he is not ready yet.
After 3 Months of Marriage, I’m Still Afraid of Having Sex
Let’s say a couple is married for 3 months but has not consumed their marriage because the wife feels a lot of pain and fear when the husband is about to penetrate. What should be done?
Husband Doesn’t Like Having Sex with Me
I have been married for 4 months now and nothing seems to work at all. My husband is a good man, but he neglects me.
Husband Doesn’t Care About My Sexual Needs
I got pregnant and due to pregnancy, I became super tender to touch and this further aggravated our sexual life. The problem continues till now, after the baby’s birth.
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